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Do you have to get permission to socialize
with your friends? |
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Are
you accused of cheating on him when you leave the house to do errands, etc.? |
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Are
you afraid to talk about certain topics unless he's in a good mood? |
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Does he have control over the money and monitor your spending? |
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Does he tell you no one else would ever want you? |
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Does he threaten to harm himself if you leave him? |
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Does he go through your purse or open your mail? |
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Does he make disparaging remarks about the way you look or dress? |
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Does he use things against you that you've confided to him in the past? |
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Does he sabotage your efforts to be involved in pleasant social or family
events? |
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Does he compare you negatively to other women? |
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Are
you nervous about being on the phone when he is around? |
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Is
it okay to return home later than scheduled without being fearful? |
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Does it feel more like you have a dad than a partner? |
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Does he give you the 'silent treatment' when you want to talk or work things
out? |
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Does he try to turn the children against you? |
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Do
you feel manipulated by his kindness or gifts? |
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Do
you feel obligated to be sexual with your partner? |
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Are
your activities and interests looked upon as unimportant and trivial? |
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Does he sabotage your schedule and outside commitments? |
