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Be
aware that alcohol is
a risk factor for sexual assault. If you consume it, you are in greater danger
of being assaulted. |
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Consider going out with a group or in public rather than being alone on a
date with someone you do not know very well. |
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Be
aware of men who invade your personal space, come on too strong, or
otherwise make you feel uncomfortable. |
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Remember that you have the right to say "No". |
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Learn how sedating substances like Rohypnol and GHB can be used against you by a rapist. |
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Trust your intuition: if you feel like you are being pressured, you
probably are. |
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Learn more about your risk of sexual assault by having a staff member from
Turning Point at your groups next meeting. |
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Remember that only a rapist can prevent rape, but the more you know the
better your chances are of reducing your risks. |
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Driving
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Lock your car when driving and parked. |
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Avoid isolated or poorly lit
parking spots. |
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In
1999, one in every 10 rape victims was male. (1999 NCVS) |
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Scan the area when approaching your car. Check the back seat as well. |
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Have your keys ready when approaching your car. |
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If
your car breaks down, lock the doors and stay inside. Ask anyone who
stops to call for help. |
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In Social Situations
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Learn about a man's attitudes before you go out on a date or as you talk. |
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Express your limits clearly. |
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Avoid secluded places. |
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Avoid alcohol and other drugs. (See Date Rape Drugs) |
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Arrange your own transportation. |
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At Home
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Leave lights on when you are out. |
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Ask
for a salesperson's, repairman's, policeman's credentials before allowing
them in your home. |
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Vary your daily routine, if possible. |
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Install and use quality dead-bolt locks. |
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Make friends in your neighborhood. |
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Install a peephole in your door. |
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Do
not enter your home if it looks like it has been broken into. |
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Walking
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Plan your route and walk confidently. |
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Don't walk in isolated areas, especially at night. |
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Never accept a ride from a stranger. |
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If
you are being followed, go into a store or other area with people or knock
on a door for help. |